media

reviews

I'm an active review blogger, a top Amazon reviewer, and a member of the selective Amazon Vine reviewing community. My readers are invested in feel-good stories and quality products, and that combination has led to drive interest and sales for items with higher end items (retailing from $500-$2000) like the the BOB Revolution stroller and Rifton Mini Pacer gait trainer to smaller items like books and bags and dolls.

I am most interested in reviewing toys, educational items for children, special needs equipment, and home decor, but even if your product isn't on the list, feel free to send a description to reviews@dinglefest.com and I'll consider it.


sponsored marketing campaigns

I'm very picky about who and how I partner with organizations. First, I publish my own content only, so it's an automatic no for campaigns asking me to cut and paste their pre-written posts. Second, I have to be able to see a benefit to my readers before I'll share anything with them. Third, I have to feel personally invested in the campaign. 

So far, only two campaigns have met those criteria: one on Fetal Alcohol Syndrome Disorders (post one, two, three, and four) and one featuring Compassion International (here). Contact me at campaigns@dinglefest.com if you're interested in a marketing partnership.


advertising 

I am selective about what advertising I allow in this space, not including any in the seven years I've been blogging. That said, I'm open to partnerships with like-minded organizations and individuals, so please contact me at ads@dinglefest.com with your proposal and, if it's acceptable, we can discuss rates.

Fetal Alcohol Syndrome Disorders: facts, not fears

When we first considered adoption, one acronym sparked fear in us: FASD. Little did we know that we would begin an adoption and fall in love with a child, only to learn the fact partway through the process that significant amounts of alcohol exposure had occurred in the womb.

We were already all in, and we learned a valuable lesson:

Fears paralyze us, but facts equip us. 

Here are some posts full of facts about FASD:

another diagnosis: Fetal Alcohol Syndrome Disorder

five things we should all know about FASD

an accurate FASD diagnosis matters

four reasons to fight stigma & support families

how good and pleasant it is, indeed

This picture generated more "likes" this weekend on Facebook than anything else I've ever posted.


And not just because of the amazing lizard shirt + seersucker puppy shorts + wild animal camo Toms combo, though Philip wore it well.


This handsome five year old saw me on my knees pushing Zoe's Rifton Mini Pacer so she could take steps without having to move the additional weight of the gait trainer (which, with all its accessories, nearly weighs as much as she does), and he politely dismissed me.


He wanted the job of helping his little sister walk around the playground, one we chose to visit specifically because of the accessibility features. (Local friends, it's Marsh Creek Park's play area, if you want to check it out.)


But to him, it wasn't a job. It was a joy.


Without any suggestion from me, he brought her over to the play wall, made for kids like Zoe to enjoy.


Then he enjoyed it with her.


 He wasn't satisfied with that, though. He directed her to the big play structure, where our other four were playing. Zoe wants nothing more than to tag along with her big brothers and sisters, just like any other youngest child.


Up... up... up... and down... down... down... they went.


Full of smiles, full of personality!


Zoe crashed hard on the way home, worn out from all the activity.


And my heart nearly exploded, for the love of two children born across the world from each other and made siblings in a whole 'nother country.

Amazing grace.
Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers
{and, in this case, their sisters}
dwell in unity!
(Psalm 133:1, italics mine)

resources

This page is and will always be a work in progress. I aim to list online and off-line resources - many free - that can help churches minister to and with people with special needs here. Please comment if you have any suggestions for me to add!

By summer 2014, I'll be adding a page titled "handouts" of my own print resources that you can freely use as long as you don't charge anything for the content.


Other blogs

The Works of God

Story Fork: A Community Engaging Disability {where I serve as a content curator}

Disability Concerns for the Christian Reformed Church in North America

The Inclusive Church

Church 4 Every Child

Diving for Pearls

All Access

Different Dream

Wrestling with an Angel


Disability Ministry Organizations

99 Balloons {where I serve as a consultant}

Joni & Friends

Key Ministry {where I serve as a consultant}

Mark 2 Ministries


Secular Organizations offering Support/Information Valuable to Churches

The Elizabeth M. Boggs Center on Developmental Disabilities

Disability Scoop


Special Needs Adoption resources

To be developed soon. 
{I used to list a popular special needs adoption website here, but I no longer can do so after hearing first-hand stories of unethical behavior.}

Books & curricula

Same Lake, Different Boat by Stephanie O. Hubach

Wrestling With an Angel by Greg Lucas

Special Needs, Special Ministry 
{currently out of print, but a new edition is available: Special Needs Ministry for Children}

My review of several special needs handbooks
and a direct Amazon link to the one I recommend most: Autism & Your Church, which is helpful for a wide array of diagnoses and not just autism

Recommended disability ministry book list from Bethlehem Baptist Church

Another blogger's review of A Different Dream for My Child by Jolene Philo

Another blogger's review of Lifeway's Special Buddies curriculum

about

Hi. I'm so glad you found this site, and I pray that it equips you as you serve in your home and your church.

I'm a Christian. I'm also a wife, mom, and ministry leader, in that order. I blog about our family at Dinglefest.


disability and disease in my life
I stumbled into the realm of disability and disease in several ways: in elementary school when I rocked the IEP for years due to severe speech impairments, in the summer of one of those years when I hung out under Mississippi magnolia trees as my mom nursed my Pops through end-stage lung cancer, in high school when my friend on the swim team needed someone to help include her because she couldn't hear, in college when I worked at a preschool program for children with developmental delays resulting from prenatal drug exposure, after graduation as I taught kids with a range of disabilities in public schools in Texas and North Carolina, and in consulting as I developed training materials for new special ed teachers.

Somewhere along the way, I earned my MAEd in Special Education, specializing in learning disabilities and autism, but all my experiences before that and since have taught me far more than my formal education ever could.

disability and disease in the church
When it came to church, though, I didn't notice that my church didn't include the kids and adults I loved. It took a God-ordained assignment of a little guy with Down syndrome to my Vacation Bible School class to make me realize how much my church was failing to truly include image bearers like him. Shortly after that, my husband and I started coordinating Access Ministry, the special needs ministry of Providence Baptist Church.

In that role, we've gotten to be the church and love the church in deeper ways that we knew were possible. We have poured more of our time and energy and selves into Access Ministry than any other ministry area, and we have received more in return. This truly is our passion.

disability and disease in our family
After the birth of our first child, my body... well, it broke. A couple of autoimmune disorders sprung up unexpectedly, including rheumatoid arthritis which permanently damaged my hands and knees, though - praise God - effective treatment has it under control most of the time. Some days I limp, and other days I swallow pills or get IV treatments... all reminding me that God's glory can be demonstrated well in my weakness.

Then, throughout 2012 and 2013, we added a few more layers of perspective to our role as Access Ministry coordinators: parents of children with special needs. In summer 2012, we added a precious daughter to our family via special needs adoption; she's a gal who has a lot of spunk and a diagnosis of cerebral palsy and a now-healed heart defect. In fall 2012, our son had a grand mal seizure, which eventually led to a diagnosis of childhood epilepsy. About a year later, in fall 2013, we added a sibling group of three to the family via adoption, one of whom has HIV and became more familiar with some of the emotional needs that are common among children from hard places.

(If you're keeping track, that means we went from two children in June of 2012 to six children by October of 2013 and no special needs to multiple diagnosis in that same time period. If you take a look at the blog history, you'll see a long pause during the same stretch, because my writing had to take a backseat to family matters, for obvious reasons!)

disability and disease on this blog
I started writing here for three reasons:
  1. Writing helps me think. At the time I started blogging, we didn't have a solid team in our church's Access Ministry, so we had no one to think out loud with. So I wrote out loud.
  2. Writing connects me with others. I love learning from the parents and ministry leaders and people with disabilities and others who comment or email or tweet in response to what I write. It was through this blog that we connected with folks who God used to stir our hearts toward considering the international adoption of children with special needs.
  3. Writing is needed in this area of ministry. Google "children's ministry blog" or "youth ministry blog" or "women's ministry blog," and you'll get a lot of hits. When I started this blog - and even now - not much came up for "special needs ministry blog" or "disability in church." 
And I keep writing for all those reasons. 

one last note...
You're here for a reason, and I'd love to know what your passion is. Leave me a comment on a blog post, or email me at shannon@theworksofgoddisplayed.com - I'd love to hear from you!